Relationship Reset Podcast
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Every episode of The Relationship Reset Podcast is raw and real. Packed with stories, tools, and straight-up strategies to rebuild trust, get your intimacy back, and finally stop feeling like roommates. If you’re tired of walking on eggshells, and ready to actually feel like a couple again, then this is where you reset and reconnect for real.
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Are you partners or just roommates?
Tired of just coasting through your relationship? If you’re feeling like ships passing in the night, it’s time to clear out the emotional clutter and get real with each other.
Spring Clean Your Relationship is for couples who are done playing roommates and ready to reignite their connection.
No fluff, no fake smiles—just the truth about where you stand and what it takes to move forward, together. If you’re ready to do the work, this series is your blueprint.
Spring Clean Your Relationship
FEATURED EPISODE SERIES
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Love isn’t always enough. Are you still each other’s person, or just living under the same roof? This one question could break open everything.
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Your values are the foundation. Are you building a life together, or are you two worlds apart? Time to get real about it.
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Enough with the vague “someday” goals. What are you actively working toward, together, right now? Let’s set some real intentions.
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No sugarcoating here. Let your partner tell you how they really see you. It’s raw, it’s real, and it might just be the wake-up call you need.
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136. Date Nights Won’t Save Your Marriage
If you think date nights are what you need, listen to this episode. It will help you consider what the real issue is in your marriage, and learn how to solve it.
135. I Caught My Ex-Boyfriend Cheating & I Decided To Stay
In this episode, I tell you the story of catching my ex-boyfriend cheating on me. I share what happened, the thoughts I had at the time, and why I decided to stay in the relationship.
134. 3 Things You Keep Saying That Are Slowly Killing Your Marriage
There are 3 things you keep saying that are slowly killing your marriage. This is just a communication issue, and I explain what you should say in these situations instead.
133. 5 Things We Did in 2024 That Changed the Game for Our Marriage
In this episode, I share 5 things that my husband and I did last year as a married couple that really changed the dynamic of our marriage.
132. My Husband Comes Before My Kids
I recently shared a post on Instagram where I said “my husband comes before my kids” and in this episode I explain exactly what I mean, slide by slide.
131. How Do I Get Their Trust Back?
If you feel like no matter how much you apologize your partner still doesn’t trust you, this is for you. I walk you through the HEAL Framework that I use with couples to repair the trust in their marriages.
130. Why Traditional Premarital Counseling Doesn't Work & What You Actually Need Before You Say ‘I Do’
I take you through what most premarital counseling entails, why it doesn't work, and what you actually need for a healthy marriage.
129. Every Time I Bring It Up They Get So Defensive
We all have sore subjects in our marriages and topics where one partner gets defensive. Defensiveness is so common in any type of betrayal. In this episode, I share 3 tools you can use right now to get past the defensiveness in these conversations.
128. How Do I Get my Husband to Do What I Want?
Are you asking yourself…How do I get my husband to do what I want? In this episode I talk about why this happens, how it impacts your relationship, and I coach you through 3 practical ways to stop over-functioning in your marriage while still getting your needs met.
127. I Want to be Close Again but I Don't Know How
If you’re trying to get close to your partner again and it isn’t working, it’s probably because you're forcing a pressure that is unnecessary in your marriage. I outline 3 things you can do to work on the emotional and physical intimacy in your marriage. This work is so important for a healthy marriage and a close relationship with your partner.
126. We're Back in the Same House but it Still Feels Cold
This episode is for couples who decided to take a physical break from one another, and are now back together. I share 3 practical steps anyone can take for intentional reconnection.
125. I Just Want to Know It’s Not All My Fault
If betrayal happened, and you just want to know it’s not all your fault, I share three things you can do to start to heal. This exercise will help you stop second guessing yourself and reclaim your confidence.
124. Why am I the Only One Doing All of the Emotional Work?
If you feel like you’re the only one doing all of the emotional work in your relationship, your resentment is probably building. I share three things that will help you and your partner understand each other better and work towards a stronger, more balanced relationship.
123. I Still Don't Know the Whole Story & It's Driving Me Crazy
If you have been betrayed by your partner, and you are going crazy because you don’t have the entire story, this episode is for you. I explain the reasons why this is driving you crazy, and how you can reframe the situation to move forward.
122. We're Not Fighting Anymore, But We're Not Connecting Either
In this episode, I discuss the “roommate stage". I explain what might be going on in your relationship and why this can become an even bigger issue. I share the specific actions you need to take to heal your marriage and bring back the connection you both once had.
121. They apologized. So why don't you feel better?
In this episode, I tell you why even though they apologized, which is what you wanted, you still don’t feel better. I share the questions you need to ask yourself to create an accountability blueprint to help you and your partner heal and strengthen your relationship.
120. Why My Pause Was On Purpose
In this episode I explain why I took a pause from recording podcasts and renamed the show. I share some updates and remind you that you are allowed to pause in your life, too.
119. Through Thick & Thin Pt. 2: When the Spark Fades
In Part 2 of the series Through Thick & Thin: When the Spark Fades, I talk about something that is completely normal in all marriages, when the spark fades.
118. Through Thick & Thin Pt. 1: When Life Throws a Curveball
In Part 1 of the series Through Thick & Thin: When Life Throws a Curveball, I share what you can do in your relationship when life throws you a curveball.
117. 2024: How God Showed Up Pt. 3: Personal Convictions
In Part 3 of the series 2024: How God Showed Up, I get more personal and I share the revelations that I had with God this year.