Listen as I share how busyness is hurting your relationship. There is a big difference between being busy and being selective about how you spend your time.

In this episode, I share with you the core difference between what a heart posture of busyness and a heart posture of being selective and intentional looks like.

I teach you how being busy isn't a flex because it's focused on tasks and not the heart.

Check out this episode as I highlight and break down the top ways we listen to our partners.

The top ways we listen to our partners are:

As the Fixer as the Safe Space as the Motivator as the Protector

I share how each of these ways of listening to your partner can actually benefit your relationship, but it all depends on the delivery and your ability to surrender.

Listen to this week's episode "Having Desire Vs. Being Equipped" as I go through the difference between having a desire to want to be in a relationship versus being equipped to be in one.

Listen to this week's episode as we talk about the top 3 reasons why relationships don't work out. For this episode, we will focus heavily on values and how when our values are shaky, our relationship isn't as strong as it could be.

Listen to this week's episode as we talk about the top 3 reasons why we let our friends go. There is a reason behind why you both grew apart and in this episode, we finally expose why.

Listen to this week's episode highlighting the biggest relationship issue out there which is that people don't know what they want.

And you don't know what you want in a relationship, because you don't know who you are.

Listen to this episode as I break down the different identities that have overcome your OWN identity and ability to show up as.

Listen to this week's episode "You're in a checklist marriage" where I discuss how many of us end up in a checklist marriage and the three areas we need to focus on to transition out of it.

This week's episode focuses on the 3 reasons why hobbies are necessary in your relationship. When your partner has hobbies, it feels like they're cheating on you, but THEY ARE NOT. 

Listen to this episode as I break down :

1. How Hobbies are necessary

2. What support ACTUALLY means

3. How Hobbies release the tension that currently exists in your relationship. 

I want to help you finally have peace in your relationships so that you can show up as the partner you desire.

This week's episode touches upon the difference between idolization and inspiration.

God tells us that idols are as empty as the wind and we must constantly turn our hearts to him.

It seems pretty simple and obvious.

But, did you know that you could idolize your career?

You could even be idolizing your relationship.

The line is so thin and sneaky that you don't even see it coming.

In this episode, I share the top 3 things we tend to idolize rather than God.

Listen how I almost broke up with my boyfriend, the man that is now my husband because I thought he was boring. 

Hear the story behind how I realized I had toxic friendships, my part in being a toxic friend myself, and my pruning journey towards exiting these friendships.

Listen as I share my framework for Boundaries and why boundaries are difficult for "us" to set. There are different roadblocks for us when we're getting ready to set boundaries with our family, close friends, etc.

Listen as I share some hard news to hear about the decisions that you've made in your relationship in pursuit of certain goals, ideas, and even your own career/business. 

Listen as I pray for you. This episode is an entire declaration and decree over your life. It is meant to inspire you and fill up your cup.

Listen as I share how taking responsibility for setting your boundaries is important in the process of getting your life back. The importance of reconfiguring your values, your faith, and your purpose is super essential when setting your boundaries. Stop stagnating this important part of your journey. 

Listen as I share how much of a united front with your partner you need during the holidays and your in-laws. This episode isn't for those who have accepting in-laws and ones that respect you and love you for what you and your partner are building. This episode is for couples who struggle with their in-laws during the holidays. I share the many reasons why being on the same page is SO important. 

Listen as I share how the enemy works to manipulate my mind and twist my negative thoughts into creating plans that aren't aligned with what God wants for me. It's super sneaky and perverse and it has been put on my heart to share with you all. 

Listen as I share why it's so important that we stop trying to change people. I share how folks rarely change for others, our main incentive in making changes is selfish, we mainly change for ourselves. 

I share my personal testimony as a recovering controller wanting to change the relationships around me and discovering that it all boiled down to fundamental values. 

Listen as I share the vulnerable journey of marriage therapy with my husband and how I was deeply offended that our therapist didn't side with me. Our marriage therapy story is always one of victory that I look back on. There was so much resistance to start but it was the very tool that our marriage needed in order to build something very different for the next generation.