54. Ways We Argue in Our Relationship
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Five years ago, after achieving my degrees and teaching as a professor, I was feeling proud that I had checked everything off my life list. But, I wasn’t satisfied in my marriage.
Today, I’m a relationship coach on a mission to resurrect the side of you that got lost in your marriage. Millions of people around the world soak up my content for advice on how to have a more satisfying relationship.
This week’s episode focuses on the 3 different types of arguing that we do in our relationships.
These types of methods for conflict resolution are the most difficult and dangerous for your relationship.
The 3 types of arguing in your relationship that cause you to remain stuck are:
Talk Too Much: this is where we over-communicate to the point that there is no space for action or anyone to take a breath. In my private 1:1 program, I help you create distance between the conversation and the action.
Cut Throat: this is where you don't think before you speak and are constantly exploding in your relationship because you have so much bottled-up frustration. I want to help you unpack what it is that is bugging you and teach you to deliver your feelings without hurting anyone.
Keep My Mouth Shut: this is where one of you has decided that it's no longer safe to be yourself in the relationship and you're better off keeping your mouth shut. I will teach you the characteristics of what this looks like if it's happening in your relationship and how to start creating a safe space for each other.
The key to getting out of these types of arguing styles is to focus on yourself first. I know what you're thinking --"But it's them, not me!".
I understand that's how you feel, but focusing SO much on this relationship and not YOURSELF is not allowing you to show up as YOU.
You're losing yourself slowly.
By focusing on your FIRST, you'll be able to:
Declutter your mind and find clarity
Delivery of how you feel with more grace
Finally, show up as the TRUE YOU
I want to help you finally have peace in your relationships so that you can show up as the partner you desire.
In my private 1:1 life coaching program, I will teach you my proven methods for surrendering your relationships, so that you can have the life you love and desire again.
P.S. If this episode resonated with you and you're ready to free yourselves of any idols and figure out who God is calling you to be, then let's work together. Book a sales call here so that we can do this work together. I'm so excited to meet you!
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